When I mentioned Howard Glasser's work, The Nurtured Heart Approach during one of my seminars as an example of a program for developing positive parenting/teaching/therapy skills, someone in the back asked, ‘Is that back in style again?’
“Parenting skills training helps parents learn how to use a system of rewards and consequences to change a child's behavior.Parents are taught to give immediate and positive feedback for behaviors they want to encourage, and ignore or redirect behaviors they want to discourage.”
1) Do
not feed a child’s negative impulses with attention to him when he is
acting-out
2)
Give tons of positive attention to the child
at times when he is not acting out
3)
Absolutely follow through with consequences when
a rule is broken rule so that there is no confusion regarding what is okay and
what is not okay.
A 6-hour internet-based training class (for CEUs) is available from Glasser that very clearly describes his philosophy and shows how his techniques can help the challenging children and adults in your life.
1 comment:
Thank you for reflecting the opportunity with the Nurtured Heart Approach. Some who have been around for awhile have confused the NHA with the Nurturing Program. They are different and that may be what the person was thinking of in the situation you reference--For me, as a NHA trainer, it is so much about supporting successful adults in relationship with youth, and others. Thank you again for sharing the Nurtured Approach with your audience.
Jeanine Knapp
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